• Check out her situation
  • Is she alone or with a group of people?
    • If she’s alone, she is more than likely waiting for someone or some other people. Women are social creatures and are VERY RARELY alone in public settings.
    • If she’s with a group of people, she’s going to be more comfortable and willing to be approached by you.
  • Is she looking at you or just looking around?

• • • If you have noticed that she has been glancing at you more than twice, this is very good. She more than likely wants you to approach and talk with her.
    • If she is just looking around, it’s not that she hasn’t noticed you – it may be just her checking out the scene.
  • Is she dressed conservatively or provocatively?
    • If she is dressed casually, she is probably just enjoying the environment and is open to chatting.
    • If she is dressed provocatively, she is seeking attention and wants to be approached.
  • Does she look bored with the people around her?
    • If so, you may well be a welcome relief from her situation
• Make initial eye contact
  • A quick glance or two at her or even in her direction is best to see if she is checking you out. For heaven’s sake, DON’T STARE! It doesn’t matter how attractive she is, if she feels like you are staring at her, you’re done. She needs to be intrigued by you, not freaked out.
• Take one more glance at her to confirm that she’s into you
  • If she looks receptive, great – you’re on your way
  • If she purposefully avoids your eye contact, better leave this one alone – she’s not into you – find someone else.
• If all is good so far, then make your approach while keeping your eyes on her
  
• Whatever you do, do NOT use a pickup line. Women have heard all of them and besides being lame, they just make you look like an idiot.
  • All you need to say is something like, “How’s it going?” or “How are you?”
  • No matter what she says, you need to ask a question to break the ice
    • There are tons out there, but some of the best are:
      • “What’s your name?” – wow, shocker, but it’s one of the best!
      • “Where’s your boyfriend?” – you are finding something out as well as initiating the conversation. If she says she doesn’t have one, great – your on your way. If she he’s in the bathroom, well…you probably know what to do.

For tons more useful information on attracting and talking with women, you have to CHECK THIS OUT!

• Distance between you and her
  This is by far the easiest one to pay attention to. The closer she is to you, the more likely she will be interested in you.
• Head positions
  When her head is held high and tilted upwards, she is projecting confidence (whether it’s real or not is another story). When her head is tilted downwards, she may be hiding something or may be a little insecure.

• Watch the eyes
  There are all sorts of ways to try and decipher a women’s glances and eye positions, but the most general – and obvious – one is that if she spends more time looking at you than looking around, then she’s interested in you and/or what you are saying. If she consistently looks around while you are talking, she’s not into you – she’s looking to get out of listening to you.
• Arm positions
  The simple gesture of crossed arms means that she is projecting that she is shut off from socializing. Do not approach a woman who’s arms are crossed – she will see this as a challenge and will not be receptive. If you are talking with her and she crosses her arms, it means that she either does not agree with what you are saying or that she is defending her position on the matter.
• Mirroring
  Mirroring is just when she mimics you and your body language and usually this is a very good sign. She may adjust her body to line up with yours, or she may cross her legs like yours. This is what you want!

For TONS of more useful tips on how to attract all sorts of women, check this out!

I feel that I’ve been blessed to have had two different types of threesomes: one with a straight girl and a bisexual girl, and the other with two openly bisexual girls. Here’s what I learned from each:

Straight girl + me + Bisexual girl = Threesome:
See how I phrased that…that’s what it was like. The straight girl just wanted to experiment a little bit and she felt comfortable with me and the bisexual girl. The bisexual girl wanted to get a little action from the straight girl (NOT to try and bring her to the ‘other side’). And I was the one in the middle that faciliated the experience!

Without getting into details (if you want details, post a comment and I may update the post), here’s basically what we did to one another:

• Bisexual girl made out with straight girl
• Bi girl ate out straight girl
• Straight girl went down on bi girl
• I ate out bi girl while fingering straight girl
• I had sex with straight girl while fingering bi girl

Essentially, I was just there so that the straight girl could try things out a bit without thinking that she was a lesbian or bisexual. I KNEW this, so I just let them go at it, without thinking it was about me. So the first secret is: IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU – IT’S ABOUT THE GIRLS! If you think it’s about you…you are DEAD WRONG! If you want any chance of making this happen, you absolutely MUST read The ONE and ONLY SEXUAL SECRET that absolutely ALL MEN NEED TO KNOW.

Bisexual girl + Bisexual girl + me = Threesome:
No doubt about it…this threesome was the MOST fun! Not only was it HOT to see these two girls do EVERYTHING to each other, but I got to partake with BOTH of them AS THEY WERE ENJOYING THEMSELVES! This experience definitely required me to be somewhat skilled, because if I wasn’t, I was going to be shown up by a GIRL…and I couldn’t let that happen!!

If you’re ever lucky enough to be in a situation like this, WATCH AND LEARN!! These girls knew exactly what to do to each other and how to make the other feel AMAZING! There’s MUCH to be learned by watching girls pleasure each other. If you want to learn more tips to pick up women, come take a look…

So the second secret is…FIND SOME BISEXUAL GIRLS! HA! Easier said than done, I know, but here’s another little secret that I’ve learned: ASK EVERY SINGLE GIRL YOU ARE (OR ARE ABOUT TO) HOOK UP WITH, IF THEY HAVE EVER KISSED ANOTHER GIRL. Here’s why it works: most girls HAVE kissed another girl – just not in a sexual way. But when you ask, look for the reaction. Does she look skiddish or look a little intruiged? If she squirms, don’t press it further…but if she looks slightly interested, press on…Ask if she would you ever hook up with another girl. I’m telling you, you’ll be surprised at the answers! Want to learn more? More tips from a WOMAN??? Come see…

The last secret, which is not really a secret, but it’s well worth noting: BUY GIRLS CHAMPAGNE! Not only do 99% of women enjoy champagne more than any other alcohol, but if they drink enough, you will be absolutely STUNNED at some of the things they will do!

So that’s it. Good luck and let me know how it goes! Subscribe to the blog to read about learn the ONLY way to experience a threesome WITH YOUR CURRENT GIRL OR GIRLFRIEND…upcoming post coming soon…

Also read:

• FINALLY find the GSPOT and drive her WILD
• The TOP 5 things to NEVER do if you want your girl to ORGASM

If you want to learn more from a WOMAN on how to be better in bed…check this out!

It’s so easy that I’m actually surprised more men don’t know it, or at least practice it…

Ok, you ready?…

PUT YOUR WOMAN’S SEXUAL NEEDS FIRST!!!!

That’s it! Man, it’s so simple and easy, but men must just be ignorant or lazy (which is fine by me!).

Here’s why it works on so many different levels:

1. If you ever wonder why your girl can’t/won’t cum, it’s probably because you are not 100% committed to HER PLEASURE FIRST. I virtually GUARANTEE this! Time and time again, the guy fingers his girl a little, MAYBE goes down on her, then jumps to the intercourse…how SAD! Unless the girl can cum through intercourse alone (which is HIGHLY UNLIKELY), the guy is humping away and, although it feels good for the girl, she doesn’t cum.

Switch it around. Do whatever she wants FIRST! Finger her, eat her out, try and make her cum (WITHOUT PUTTING PRESSURE on her to cum…see WHAT NEVER TO DO if you want to make your girl ORGASM)

2. If she sees that you are at least trying your best to put her pleasure first, she will do almost ANYTHING to you in return! For some reason, almost all women get this and men don’t! It’s amazing and a little disheartening (for those poor girls – not the ignorant guys).

3. If you don’t make her cum, she will at least acknowledge that you tried, and more than likely will ‘finish you off’ or allow you to get your pleasure on. They just want to see that you are PUTTING THEIR SEXUAL NEEDS FIRST!

4. If you do actually make her cum, then you can jump into intercourse and not EVER have to worry about ‘going all night’ again! It’s that simple. She’s already cum, it’s NOW your turn, and you can cum as quickly or wait as long as you want. I SWEAR that’s the secret!

If you want to read a FREE Sex Guide, come take a look…

Also read:

• FINALLY find the GSPOT and drive her WILD
• The TOP 5 things to NEVER do if you want your girl to ORGASM

1. Putting pressure on her Sorry lads, but even though you may be willing to do anything necessary to make your lady orgasm, putting pressure on her is exactly what NOT to do. If she feels any sort of pressure from you, it’s just NOT going to happen.
2. Wrong setting Women need to be able to focus on the amazing pleasure you are going to give her – not on the TV playing in the background, the dog barking outside, the person in the next room. If you do not create the setting that will allow her to focus on her own pleasures, she will NEVER cum.
3. Not paying attention to her signals With all the special ‘techniques’ out there showing how you can ‘make your girl orgasm every time’, if you do not pay attention to the signals – verbal (moaning, sighing, yawning!) and non-verbal (wetness, shaking, body motions) – then she simply will NOT orgasm.
4. Not spending enough time on foreplay While men do not need a whole lot of foreplay (typically seeing a girl in her panties is enough!), women on the other hand, need to be tended to. The golden rule of foreplay is…get ready for it…you can NEVER do enough of it! You will KNOW when you have done enough foreplay ONLY when your girl practically grabs you and wants what’s next!
5. Thinking you can do it from intercourse alone Yes, sex feels great…we all know that…but the women that can orgasm from intercourse alone are FEW and FAR between! While it may be possible, you better bet is to focus on the clitoral and g-spot stimulation. If you just rub or lick her clit of a few minutes or stimulate her g-spot a little then jump into intercourse, she’s not going to be happy.

If you want to read more about how to TURN YOUR GIRL ON AND GIVE HER INTENSE ORGASMS you can cruise over here and start learning!

Also read:

• FINALLY find the GSPOT and drive her WILD
• The ONE and ONLY SEXUAL SECRET that absolutely ALL MEN NEED TO KNOW

You’re not alone. Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also cause the loss of the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place. Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that magic:

1. Send them a unique gift at work – Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner’s workplace, such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

2. Become kids again – If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from their childhood.

3. Fun with water – On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.

4. A massage with a twist – Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

5. Bring back childhood memories – Contact your partner’s family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted. You can do this for your man too.

6. Stare at the clouds – Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds.

7. Go for a walk on the beach – Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.

8. Organize a backyard picnic on a warm summer’s night – Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.

9. Show you’re grateful for your partner – Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying: “Thank you for coming into my life.”

10. Spice up your lovemaking – Probably the most profound way to rekindle the romance in your relationship is to spice up your lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, try a new position, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or after, or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before making love.

Many people underestimate the affect passionate and intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you spice it up, chances are you and your partner will naturally do romantic things for each other. Why? Because passionate lovemaking connects two people in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing else can.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience.

To read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets

Here are the 7 lovemaking mistakes. Are you making them? 

Mistake #1: Feeling scared or embarrassed to talk about trying new things
Have you ever had an idea to spice up your lovemaking but were afraid of what your partner may think? Believe it or not, in 90% of cases, your partner would LOVE to try something new, too, but they’re just as uncomfortable or embarrassed about bringing it up as you are. And you don’t need to introduce whips, chains or a third person. That’s nonsense! There are hundreds of ways to bring variety to your passionate play that aren’t crude or dangerous and that your partner is sure to be comfortable with.

Mistake #2: Trying to convince the partner to make love
If your lover is tired or not in the mood for sex, trying to convince or persuade them to have sex almost NEVER works. On the other hand, when a person is sexually aroused, their body releases the chemical ‘adrenaline’ into the bloodstream. This chemical is what gives you the energy to make love. So here’s how to arouse them the right way. Yes, even if they’re tired.

Ladies: Want to get him in the mood?  Give him fellatio or manually stroke him between 9 – 10 in the morning. This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the day. For better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all. He’ll like that.

Lads: Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest ‘turn-ons’ for women. Looking in her eyes and touching her face while kissing her can really increase arousal, too. And give some attention to her neck––it will drive her wild. But don’t rush this! Spend quality time building up her arousal with your sensual kisses.

Mistake #3: Neglecting foreplay to enjoy intercourse sooner
People in a relationship (especially men) tend to neglect foreplay so they can begin to enjoy intercourse sooner, but did you know that foreplay is actually said to intensify orgasms?

That’s right. If you kiss, caress and touch longer, you can make your lovemaking even more satisfying. So SLOW DOWN. Take your time. If you want to make it even better, tease your partner in a playful way. (This works like crazy.)

If you find something that they really enjoy, stop doing it, move back, and then do it again later. The more you pull back and push forward, the more they’ll want it. And the more intense their experience will be. There are many games you can play to heighten this anticipation, too.

Mistake #4: Using toys or porn to make your lovemaking better
When sex hits a rough patch, many couples (men especially) think that a video, some plastic or vibrating thingy will instantly takes things through the roof.

Wrong!… While toys can certainly have their place in your lovemaking repertoire, relying on them can be extremely dangerous. These outside sources of pleasure can quickly make lovemaking even less fulfilling.

Why? Because you don’t want your partner to end up looking forward to their plastic toy for pleasure more than they look forward to pleasure with you, do you? Couples need to first fully discover how to please all their spouses’ body parts before introducing other elements. Use them as a spice, not the main course.

Mistake #5: Trying to make the woman orgasm ONLY from intercourse
Men often feel “unmanly” if they can’t satisfy their woman from intercourse. But what they need to understand is that a large number of women can’t achieve orgasm through normal lovemaking.Just knowing this takes the pressure off men completely. Now there’s no need to get upset when their women don’t reach orgasm. Instead, men should master the art of cunnilingus (going down on a woman).

Mistake #6: Trying to “finish” at the same time
Simultaneous orgasms are quite overrated. Instead of aiming for one orgasm that you share together, focus completely on the woman’s needs first. Hold off from the positions you find most enjoyable and instead make love in ways that are most pleasurable for your lady, until she is completely satisfied. That way you have a much greater chance of both climaxing.

Mistake #7: Sticking to a “set routine” too often
You know the drill. You take your clothes off, insert part A into part B, and, within a few minutes, the routine is over. Sound familiar? No matter how fantastic lovemaking can be, there’s no denying it can get boring over the years. And the reason is because lovemaking in its basic act is always the same. But the danger is letting it get “too routine,” which can begin to affect your relationship.

The BEST WAY to protect your love life and precious connection with your partner is to have lots of new lovemaking ideas ready at your disposal.

That’s the secret.

In fact, when you have an abundance of NEW tips and techniques ready, you’ll enjoy more hot, steamy and passionate lovemaking, discover newfound enthusiasm to make love and even make love more often.

About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets

Of course, it’s no surprise that the “holy grail” of all the female orgasms is achieved with the G-spot. But finding it and knowing how to pleasure her G-spot is the hard part! Here’s an A-to-Z on everything you need to know…

1. How to find the G-spot
First of all, the G-spot is actually a zone, rather than an actual ‘spot.’ The G-spot is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) You’ll know when you’ve found it because it feels like a ribbed bump, like the roof of your mouth just behind your front teeth.

2. How should you stimulate it?
While most men would love to satisfy their ladies with intercourse, it’s not always the best idea. Why? Because it depends on factors like the position, her level of arousal, and penis and vaginal shape and size. In short: using fingers is the easiest way to reach orgasm with the most chance of success.

3. Important: Before stimulating the G-spot
In most cases, women need to have their clitoris stimulated before stimulating the G-spot. But once it’s fully stimulated, the clitoris is often too sensitive for direct contact. Ask your lady. Otherwise, the G-spot may feel dry and uncomfortable. After this point, you can move onto the G-spot.

4. The best positions to stimulate the G-spot
To really stimulate the G-spot, you’ll need to be in a position that gives you great easy access to work your magic. Here are two suggestions: 1) Your lady lies on her back while you lie next to her, using your stronger arm. 2) She sits in doggie-style position, while you sit and pleasure her from behind. Actually, if you want even more passion and excitement, try changing from one position to another over the course of your stimulation. Now let’s talk about how you should pleasure it.

5. How to stimulate the G-spot with this technique
The motion you want to use is the “come over here” gesture, using your fingers. Keep in mind that the G-spot is different from the clitoris, which means, in most cases, you’ll stroke it slightly harder than the clitoris. Start by massaging it lightly and work your way up to a point she finds incredibly satisfying.

6. How to tell if she’s enjoying it
First of all, remember that the best feeling will vary for every woman. Alternate between two very slight movements or spots to find what she likes best. You’ll know what she likes by her breathing or when she firmly grips you. Having said all that, there is a way to make this experience even MORE pleasurable.

7. The missing piece to a powerful orgasm
Did you know that prolonged foreplay is said to intensify orgasms? That’s right. However, men often focus so much on “performing” that they forget about spicing up their lovemaking with new and exciting things. Let’s face it; most of us are guilty of this.

You take your clothes off. Away you go, and, within a few seconds or minutes, the routine is over. But as the bedroom magic fades, it becomes harder and harder to make woman achieve orgasms. Why? Because women long for variety in their sexual experience.

The very best way to please women long-term is to have an entire ‘bag of ideas’ ready to pull out whenever they’re needed. I cannot stress the need to keep your lovemaking fresh and exciting in every way. That’s the secret to fulfilled lovemaking.

About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets